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Men and PMT!

A challenge was thrown down elsewhere on writelink recently for a 'female warrior' to stand up for women against some men's apparent misogynism (eh, David). I wouldn't even aspire to that title but thought I would share a comment piece I had broadcast on yourkindatv on June 27 this year.

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What is it about men and PMT? Normally, they don't want to talk about anything that could be considered to come even vaguely under the category "women's troubles". Yet when it comes to pre-menstrual tension, they are only too happy to bandy the words round. Not that they want to discuss it like a serious issue, oh no. They just use "the time of the month" to cover for their own shortcomings, namely their inability to understand women even the tiniest little bit.

Any sign of grumpiness from a woman and men seem to immediately withdraw behind the protective shield of blaming it on on her hormones. Forget the fact that they've been late home ten nights in a row, that the toilet seat is permanently up, towels dumped in a heap to dry some time this century and boxer shorts littered across the bedroom floor. I mean why on earth would that be the cause of a woman's bad mood? It's not like most men expect women to clear up after them, is it? No, we just spend hours trying to sympathise and empathise with their work troubles and generally sort out and organise their lives.

I don't know about Men are from Mars, Women from Venus. Personally, most of the men I meet seem to come from Uranus! And the next time one of them lightly plays with the phrase PMT, I know what I shall be screaming back at them: "Prehistoric Men Trauma!". And no, before you ask guys, it isn't that "time of the month"!

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308 Words . sarah_james , add to friends . 15/07/07 . 11:27:56 am . Permalink . Email . 297 views  14 feedbacks

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Comment from: Mater [Visitor] Email · http://www.freewebs.com/annareiers
You are, of course, spot on, Sarah! But pity the man when all the females in the family suffer from PMT simultaenously (we have six daughters, and my husband is relieved now that there's only one left at home with us). Even if they are all from Uranus! :-D
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 11:51
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Yes, I love my boys to bits and even though part of me would also like a daughter, I am very glad not to have to deal with a teenage girl!
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 12:05
Comment from: davidr [Member] · http://www.freewebs.com/dwrob/
I reserve judgement, on the basis that I've already answered on the forums, but it seems odd to me that when the neighbours asked why she had thrown a bread knife at me and impaled a bacon sandwich to the kitchen wall, Ma'am replied, "it was the wrong time of the month."
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 12:10
Comment from: dids blog [Member]
Amen to that Sarah...It reminds me of something a female comedian said. When asked by a man what turned her on the most, she said when they offered to hoover the floors every Friday.
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 12:15
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Thank you dids.
Guess you're lucky David - that it hit the bacon sandwich not you!
As far as eserving 'judgement' goes - there's still a day for someone to turn all this highly balanced banter into a piece for this month's poetry resources!
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 13:02
Comment from: davidr [Member] · http://www.freewebs.com/dwrob/
Hmm. Pity I don't do poetry
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 13:05
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
You could always give it a try. You might be surprised.
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 14:17
Comment from: Marilyn [Visitor] Email
Well I never thought about it like that, Sarah - the Resources poetry comp I mean - too late now!
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 16:21
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
You've still got seven hours! In theory I'm planning to submit another one tonight. Whether I actually will or not is a different matter!
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 16:46
Comment from: greenwood [Member] Email
You are right, Sarah; but few men have the courage to admit it, they are so afraid other 'men' would accuse them of being under the thumb.
There a few men worth the time to argue with; calm down David. They cannot understand the frustration they cause, and do not see that they couldn't cope with similar treatment.
However, they have their uses; just trying to think od one?
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 20:03
Comment from: davidr [Member] · http://www.freewebs.com/dwrob/
Being deadly serious for once, I would recommend the following article.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Misandry

particularly the section on institutionalised misandry and the damage it an do to male/female relationships. Although this article refers to the USA, it can been seen in the UK too.
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 20:39
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Misandry? That's far too long a word for my pretty little head to worry about!
Seriously, I don't hate men myself, I love them. I just don't understand them any more than they seem to understand me!
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 21:21
Comment from: Marilyn [Visitor] Email
I love men, too and thanks for the interesting link, David. Will respond some time as to a few thoughts after reflecting and mulling it over.

Just to further add that my hubby is more of a feminist than I am. Now that's an idea, I'll ask him if he'll read it, too.
PermalinkPermalink 16/07/07 @ 10:22
Comment from: dids blog [Member]
I think my hubby has got it into context.
He tells people he wears the pants. And I hold them up.
PermalinkPermalink 16/07/07 @ 11:18

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