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Obsessed - me?

I have just finished reading the latest issue of Mslexia and was going to compare reading its new writing section to simultaneously having an orgasm and being slapped in the face... but my husband objected! >:XX

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He said this was a massive exaggeration. Just as well then that I hadn't planned to use kicked in the head instead!

Seriously, he is right that reading Mslexia would have to take second place to the real thing, even if only just! But the analogy does kind of sum up that rollercoaster feel I get from top quality poetry. On the one hand, as a reader I want to shout "wow, Wow, WOW!" with joy and appreciation of the beauty of a perfect poem. But at the same time, as a poet myself, it also gives me that slightly sick in the stomach, slapped-face feeling of "How can I even begin to dream of writing like that?"

But maybe that's me. I am beginning to worry about how much blogging, reading and writing poetry is taking over my time. Even my four-year-old son seems to think I'm obsessed and I fear I may be putting him off poetry for life.

Every time I pick up a pen and start writing, he exclaims "Stop writing that poetry, Mummy!" And when he hears me muttering to myself, he immediately requests, "Stop saying that poetry, Mummy!"

Only trouble is...I can't stop!

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236 Words . sarah_james , add to friends . 11/07/07 . 06:59:34 am . Permalink . Email . 342 views  8 feedbacks

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Comment from: greenwood [Member] Email
Ah, well, I am sitting here composing and blogging and grumpi8ng about all the poets better than me and if I don't do something about the mounds of clutter, dust, papers and cat hairs, my grandson and his mum will arrive; William will very likely say 'what a mess' and his Mum, beloved daughter, will start to worry if her aged parent - aged a mere 62 - is capable of looking after herself.
I will console my ego by cuddling six month old Alex - too young to be critical.
I have spent too much on entry fees this month - composed 8 new poems - maybe they are right to worry.
Keep composing and keep amiling Sarah and I am not in a position to compare poetry and orgasms, at the moment!
PermalinkPermalink 11/07/07 @ 07:54
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Hi Betty,
Well, they won't worry if your entry fees win you a nice little (or big!) prize!
Of the many addictions out there - gambling, alcohol, nicotine, other drugs - I don't think poetry is too bad a habit to have, though perhaps less widely understood than other addictions!
PermalinkPermalink 11/07/07 @ 08:41
Comment from: marilyn [Member] Email · http://www.writelink.co.uk/blogs/marilyn
I'm nodding my head in agreement at the reply you made to Betty, Sarah.

This month's Mslexia mag. Wow! Suffice to say it 'shivered me timbers' alright.
PermalinkPermalink 11/07/07 @ 09:35
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Yes, Mslexia has to be my favourite writing mag. It does have one fault though - it's new writing section just isn't big enough! (Though I'd probably still think that, however big the section was!)
I think that's why the poetry competition results issue is always so particularly good though, it feels longer than the usual new writing sections.
PermalinkPermalink 11/07/07 @ 10:46
Comment from: Mater [Visitor] Email · http://www.freewebs.com/annareiers
I let Mslexia out of my hands too quickly! I always find that I need to re-read whole sections, for my own satisfaction (not of the orgasmic kind), but this time I passed it on before I had even finished it. I share it with my daughter - and it will come back!
Another daughter told me this morning that I am too old to blog (I'm 53). The cheek of it!
PermalinkPermalink 11/07/07 @ 22:03
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Absolutely! Maybe the "young ones" are scared of the blogging competition! Heaven forbid anyone over 30 should have anything interesting to say!
PermalinkPermalink 12/07/07 @ 07:41
Comment from: kay green [Member] Email · http://www.earlyworkspress.co.uk
Do you know, a huge number of the 'hello' messages by newbies in my writers group have been practically apologising for being on the web whilst being over 30, 40, 50 or whatever. Anything groovy seen on forums or blogs is always assumed as being by some 'bright young thing' ... and it usually turns out to be a bright old thing.
PermalinkPermalink 14/07/07 @ 22:14
Comment from: sarah_james [Member] Email · http://www.milltech-systems.co.uk
Although it obviously can be abused by some, that is the wonderful thing about the internet: one can be a completely different person to the person one is in the flesh. It may be hard to believe, but I'm nowhere near as pushy or loud-mouthed in person as I am writing on the internet!
It was also very interesting to see how Miss Hale's Diary fooled people when Sue first put it up on the blogs (not that there was any intention of fooling people.) It does explain what it's about on the right hand side but at first looked like a genuine, real diary!
I actually think if I was writing a first person novel/novella, I might be tempted to try writing it as a bogus blog. It would be good to get people's reactions in terms of how realistic it seemed and also breaks writing a novel into more bitesize chunks! I believe some authors ahve already done this.
Anyway, I'll stop waffling and get on with boring people with my over 30 internet ravings!
PermalinkPermalink 15/07/07 @ 08:13

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